Cold!

The temperatures have plummeted over the last week and are down to minus twenty at night and rise to  minus ten to fifteen during the day. So it is quite cold!

Apparently there is a saying in Norway (which Berghaus have picked up on in their advertising) that there is no such thing as bad weather, only the wrong clothes. Before we came to Kyrgyzstan we made sure to buy some good cold weather kit and it has certainly paid off. When we go outside, we are bundled up in base layers, fleeces and duvet jackets, snow boots and inner and outer gloves... and it is all very necessary, and we have not - yet - got really cold. We have even been for a few runs! (see our running blog (link on the right)).

At times the cold weather is fun. Felix had his birthday party last Saturday and part of the time was a snow fight whilst we walked to the nearby bowling alley. As it was so cold the snow did not make good snowballs... but people could be well and truly smothered if they walked under a tree that was shaken at the right moment!

But it is not always fun; over the last few days many homes in the city have been without gas, which has strained the electricity system causing some of the circuits in the city to breakdown. So far we are fine (it probably helps that our block of flats is near a number of government ministries and the police headquarters!), but several friends and the Oasis boys transitional home have been without gas and electricity for much of the last two days. Fortunately the boys home is quite close and were able to have their supper cooked at our house; but it will be a cold night for them and many others in the city tonight - and perhaps for a few more nights until the gas is sorted out.

“Her lungs don’t fit in her chest…”

Last week one of the girls in our Transitional Home for girls was reunited with her family. The details are murky, but it seems that when she was very young her parents divorced and her mother went to Russia to find work, leaving her with her father. Other family members cared for her for a while but she was eventually abandoned and found herself in a state home which she had to leave when she was fifteen – at which point she moved to our transitional home. She is normally a quiet girl but is now so excited to be reconnected with her family, who are now in Russia that she is bouncing about the place and bursting to tell everyone her news. As they say here, ‘her lungs don’t fit in her chest’!

Sadly, this story of abandonment is all too familiar – we were shocked to discover that in fact, between 80 to 90% of the 11,000 children in state orphanages and homes in Kyrgyzstan have parents and family members who are alive but out of touch – or who are unwilling to look after them. The 12 young people in Oasis’ transitional homes are no different. They may have ended up in these places because of family breakdown, parents migrating for work reasons, or the mistaken but widely held belief that a child can have a better life being looked after by the state. Another of the girls in the Tranistional Home was visited by her mother recently – she herself had been brought up in an orphanage, and saw no reason why her 3 children (the other two are elsewhere in Bishkek) should not have a similar upbringing whilst she works in Russia.

In other news... our colleagues who were evacuated in September are doing really well. Their son, Josh is doing all the things that a four month old should be and they are looking to return in May next year - hurrah! We have had some good snow which has all but gone as the temperatures have been relatively warm - minus five or so at night, but even up to about 10 degrees in the day. But there is some good cold weather on the way - Felix's ipod (which generally gives a pretty good forecast!) tells us that it will be minus 13 on Friday during the day and minus 20 at night. Bring it on!!!

Difficulties with Opportunities

Recently someone translating for me as I talked to Oasis staff had problems when I used the word 'challenge' - as in 'one of our challenges as an organisation is...' It seems that there is not a good way to translate this word, and his suggestion was to translate it as 'a difficulty with opportunity' - which rather defeats the object of the phrase which is to frame a situation with positive rather than negative language!

So, one of our recent 'difficulties with opportunity' is that some of the boys in our transition home were caught breaking into a local shop early one morning. It is the first time that they have been in trouble with the authorities in this way, and is completely out of character (at least for who they have become over the last year or two with us) - but has the potential to land them in prison. They have been released back into our care for twenty eight days whilst the case is brought and then they will be sentenced - either a prison term or community service. The boys now feel foolish and sorry, and the staff who have worked with them feel very let down and hurt; but we are picking up the pieces. It has certainly been a challenging few days - but it is not clear what the opportunity in this might be...

On a lighter note, we had our first proper snow of the season - and everything carried on as normal! No traffic tailbacks, no schools closed, and no one was late for work (or no later than usual...) And we had a beautiful walk to school!

Some cultural moments

I (Jim) went for my first haircut in Kyrgyzstan last week. After 10 weeks here it had got a bit long, so, armed with my best Russian and some sign language I explained that I normally have a 'number 3' clipper setting on the back and at the sides. The hairdresser looked surprised and instead suggested a number 9, which I argued with (although it is hard to do this forcibly in my faltering Russian!) After some discussion we agreed to start with the 9 and if necessary work our way down...

I am happy to advise that it is worth taking the advice of local hairdressers; it turns out that a Russian '9' is equivalent to a UK '3'. Disaster and embarrassment were averted!

On Saturday night we had a cultural family outing - to the ballet! The beautiful ballet and opera house is about 8 minutes walk from our apartment and we had a wonderful evening watching Swan Lake. The two lead dancers were from Russia and were stunning and the rest of the company and the orchestra were local and also gave a magnificent performance. It has definitely whetted our appetite for the local arts!

We are enjoying the food; once a week we have a lady help with cleaning and she cooks a meal to a local recipe and often teaches Jane how to do it. As you can see from the picture, one local dish of metre long noodles (lagmann) can be a challenge to eat!






Finally, we are developing a little more confidence with our Russian ability and are trying to take opportunities to try it out. On leaving the team meeting last week, Jane confidently stood up and pronounced that she had to leave at which all the staff fell about laughing. Apparently she had announced that she needed to loose weight!

Winter is coming!

On Saturday we were in summer clothes, enjoying the autumn and leaves changing colour - as the picture shows. The city parks have been really beautiful. Today Jim cycled home in falling snow! According to weather forecasts it will be back to 15 degrees again in a couple of days, so we are certainly not settled in for winter yet, but it is a reminder that it is on it's way...







There are a few things to fill in from previous blog posts...

Baby Joshua (see posts on 19th and 24th September) is doing really well. In fact, the doctors are so satisfied with his progress that they don't want to see him again, and have given him authorisation to fly, so the family will be flying to America at the weekend. He and his family will have been in the UK for one day short of a month, and it has been an amazing time of healing, recovery and unexpected help and care.

Work-wise things are going well albeit with lots of challenges, not least with the sudden departure of a key member of staff (i.e. Baby Joshua's dad who was overseeing much of the finance and admin). To give an update on the challenges we mentioned earlier (17th September)... we are still looking for house parents for our girls transition home - the sort of person we were looking for proved very difficult to find, so we have slightly changed the role; we have found a property for the girls to move to and they are happily living there (we had tea with them yesterday and they won 2 of the 3 games of Uno we played with them!); and we are building good relationships with people (Jane's chocolate cake has helped with this a lot I think!)

There are a number of other challenges to add to the list; on the less interesting side picking up the finance and accounts without a proper handover, and implementing a number of short term (6 month) decisions whilst a longer term strategy is developed. More excitingly, we have loads of volunteers who have offered to help on our vulnerable youth programme, helping with homework, providing extra tuition in maths and other school subjects, teaching English, music and so on - and we need to manage and lead these people well.

One more issue we are working through is that sadly one of the girls who recently left the girls transitional home lost her baby last weekend; he was only 2 months old. She has been staying with one of our staff for the last few days and we need to help her to make good decisions about her future, where she lives (she had been at a hostel for young mothers and their children) and so on.

It is hard to remember that we have only been here for 8 weeks - it seems a lot longer and we are feeling very much at home! But as the seasons change we know that there is much to learn about this new home of ours...

Jane's Week.

Some of you have been asking what my week is like. Well, we are getting into a routine. Jim takes the children to school at 8am most days. It takes about 20 minutes to walk there. On Mondays however I take the children and stay in school to fulfill our 4 hour weekly commitment which every family with children at Hope Academy volunteers. As a teacher they are using me in that capacity and I am helping to streamline and create an English Curriculum for the primary end of the school from the many that have been used and left behind. I am really enjoying it- it's right up my street!

On Monday, Wednesday and Thursday lunchtimes I have Russian lessons and also try to do homework in 20 minute blocks throughout the day on each weekday. Somedays are more dedicated than others! On Friday mornings I go to the Oasis office for the weekly team meeting and love being there and getting to know the team better.

Much of the rest of the week is taken up with food shopping; trips along the road to a fruit and veg stall. Trips to various kiosque, markets or supermarkets to get provisions. It is a much bigger part of life here, a bit like going back to our Mum's in the 70's and how they had to do it. Actually I love the interactions and the practice it gives me for using Russian as well as trying new local foods for the first time. It also means I get to know the city and find my way around using various modes of transport. People are generally very friendly and helpful and it is not at all a threatening place to walk around in.

I collect the children at 3.45pm and am enjoying getting to know other parents as well as staff there. Then we are into homework, supper and so on. One thing I really like about the walk to and from school is the view of the mountains at one or two points along the way.

Once a month I go to the meeting of the International Women's Club at a smart hotel; great bunch. Yesterday we heard about the food security situation here from someone at the World Food Programme.

That's the general gist! Hope that gives you some idea.

Update on evacuation

After the post below it was in fact another tense day or two before Josh was evacuated. To cut a very long story short...
The Turkish evacuation company were unable to do the evacuation until (possibly) Saturday afternoon and after taking medical advice from many people the family left on the first available flight out of Kyrgyzstan which happened to be going to the UK. This was early on Friday morning (Kg time) and they arrived in London at 10.30 (UK time) and were taken straight to a nearby hospital. Amazingly a nurse was able to fly with them - she had got in touch with us on Thursday to see if she could help and agreed to change her tickets which were for the following Sunday. We still have no idea how she came to hear about the situation or how she got our number...
Josh is now being carefully monitored. He is doing well, is putting on weight and smiling at his mum (the first smiles of his life!) but he will need to be kept under observation for quite some time and may need surgery in the next week or so.
Nevertheless, everyone is very relieved that he is now able to be well looked after. Hurrah!